• tranqualizer:


“Willow Smith, you’re 11 years old. Nobody needs advice about ‘being themselves’ from you. Call us back when you get your period” was tweeted and retweeted hundreds of times last night and Monday morning.
Considering what black children learn about blackness, subtly and openly, in the media and in American culture, don’t we want them to have the strength and resilience to say, “I am not your stereotype, but I am me”? Don’t we want them to feel comfortable in their skin? Don’t we want black children to be as free as other children? Don’t we want to inoculate little girls against the onslaught of shitty messages about black femaleness?Perhaps we don’t.
I can’t help but set reaction to Willow Smith next to the plethora of young male performers who brag about swag and girls and money without raising so much as an eyebrow. But a little black girl sings “your validation is not that important to me,” and all hell breaks loose.
Much reaction to Willow Smith also confirms the way women are expected to perform femininity. One person live tweeting the BET Awards offered that Willow Smith was “turning into a little lesbian,” and that wasn’t the only message speculating on the 11-year-old’s sexuality or questioning her gender. Another tweeter snarked that rapper Tyga and Willow are one in the same.
There would be nothing wrong If Willow were to identify as a lesbian or a boy, but what narrow parameters are we placing on girls and women if simply wearing our hair short, sporting a button down over skinny jeans, and daring to mount a skateboard dictates all anyone needs to know about who we are and who we love?
What’s the problem? If I had a little girl, I would be excited as all get out if she were like Willow Smith. I wish I had been more like Willow at 11. (But then, I don’t have multimillionaire parents, which makes some difference, yes?). We lament the presence of strong role models for our children. They could certainly do a lot worse than idolizing a seemingly smart, engaging, self-assured, quirky black girl. That so many of us don’t recognize that says a lot about our society — none of it good. | The Willow Text: What the Reaction to Willow Smith Says About Us (x)

[all the haters to the left.] 

    tranqualizer:

    “Willow Smith, you’re 11 years old. Nobody needs advice about ‘being themselves’ from you. Call us back when you get your period” was tweeted and retweeted hundreds of times last night and Monday morning.

    Considering what black children learn about blackness, subtly and openly, in the media and in American culture, don’t we want them to have the strength and resilience to say, “I am not your stereotype, but I am me”? Don’t we want them to feel comfortable in their skin? Don’t we want black children to be as free as other children? Don’t we want to inoculate little girls against the onslaught of shitty messages about black femaleness?Perhaps we don’t.

    I can’t help but set reaction to Willow Smith next to the plethora of young male performers who brag about swag and girls and money without raising so much as an eyebrow. But a little black girl sings “your validation is not that important to me,” and all hell breaks loose.

    Much reaction to Willow Smith also confirms the way women are expected to perform femininity. One person live tweeting the BET Awards offered that Willow Smith was “turning into a little lesbian,” and that wasn’t the only message speculating on the 11-year-old’s sexuality or questioning her gender. Another tweeter snarked that rapper Tyga and Willow are one in the same.

    There would be nothing wrong If Willow were to identify as a lesbian or a boy, but what narrow parameters are we placing on girls and women if simply wearing our hair short, sporting a button down over skinny jeans, and daring to mount a skateboard dictates all anyone needs to know about who we are and who we love?

    What’s the problem? If I had a little girl, I would be excited as all get out if she were like Willow Smith. I wish I had been more like Willow at 11. (But then, I don’t have multimillionaire parents, which makes some difference, yes?). We lament the presence of strong role models for our children. They could certainly do a lot worse than idolizing a seemingly smart, engaging, self-assured, quirky black girl. That so many of us don’t recognize that says a lot about our society — none of it good. | The Willow Text: What the Reaction to Willow Smith Says About Us (x)

    [all the haters to the left.] 

  • -strongerthanyesterday:

bl00dsugar:

spiritsinchains:

nowaysrsly:

oreocookies93:

feefails:

-smilinggoodbye:

rawrtabi:

gurry:

prozac34:

chillynds:

breakyourlittleheartin2:

SHE BROKE HER NECK.

This makes life worth living.

If this is the only thing that I ever post about whipping my hair back and forth I will still be extremely satisfied.

OH MY GOD

I SHOULDN’T BE LAUGHING..BUT I AM!

OMG. I AM DYING.

PFFFFFT

Awww~~Poor Willow :(

I AM ACTUALLY DYING OK
WHERE DID MY AIR GO

OH MY GOD.

am i a bad person for laughing at how ironic this is

I’m going to hell but…LMFAO FIODSJGIDGJLOLOL IS THIS FOR REAL

Um. She didn’t actually beak her neck. Ellen made a joke about how she was going to break her neck and put the neck brace on… Pretty sure if she actually broke her neck she wouldn’t have pictures of Ellen all over her neck brace.
People should, I don’t know, maybe use their brains.

    -strongerthanyesterday:

    bl00dsugar:

    spiritsinchains:

    nowaysrsly:

    oreocookies93:

    feefails:

    -smilinggoodbye:

    rawrtabi:

    gurry:

    prozac34:

    chillynds:

    breakyourlittleheartin2:

    SHE BROKE HER NECK.

    This makes life worth living.

    If this is the only thing that I ever post about whipping my hair back and forth I will still be extremely satisfied.

    OH MY GOD

    I SHOULDN’T BE LAUGHING..BUT I AM!

    OMG. I AM DYING.

    PFFFFFT

    Awww~~Poor Willow :(

    I AM ACTUALLY DYING OK

    WHERE DID MY AIR GO

    OH MY GOD.

    am i a bad person for laughing at how ironic this is

    I’m going to hell but…LMFAO FIODSJGIDGJLOLOL IS THIS FOR REAL

    Um. She didn’t actually beak her neck. Ellen made a joke about how she was going to break her neck and put the neck brace on… Pretty sure if she actually broke her neck she wouldn’t have pictures of Ellen all over her neck brace.

    People should, I don’t know, maybe use their brains.

  • slightlyamusing:

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  • Nov 03 at 04:01PM + 1694
  • "Whip My Hair" by Willow Smith
Confession: I’m obsessed with this song/video/nine-year-old girl.

    "Whip My Hair" by Willow Smith

    Confession: I’m obsessed with this song/video/nine-year-old girl.



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